Dealing with Alzheimer's in the Family

Family members of Alzheimer's patients often findprevention in the future, as the patient may simply
themselves in the unforeseen role of caregiver,be reacting to fear or a feeling of a lack of control.
assuming the daunting responsibility of helping a lovedMaintaining composure during a patient's angry
one perform the routine responsibilities of daily life.outburst can be a trying duty, but it is important to
The effects of Alzheimer's disease impact not onlyremember that this behavior is not intentional and
the patient, but can wreak emotional havoc on familyshould not be taken personally.
members who are caring for the patient. Alzheimer'sCombative or otherwise defiant behavior can be a
patients are commonly disoriented with theirform of nonverbal communication, so being intuitive
environments and can exhibit erratic, challengingabout the needs of the Alzheimer's patient can help a
behaviors, including angry outbursts and even physicalcaregiver deal with the demands that are being
aggression. A person with Alzheimer's diseaseplaced on him or her. By attempting to determine the
experiences progressive loss of mental capacity thatsincere need behind a patient's erratic reaction, you
causes severe personality changes, which takes ancan address the problem and appease your loved
emotional and physical toll on his or her familyone while fulfilling his or her needs. Do not forget that
members.your communication style and mood also affect the
When caring for a family member with Alzheimer'spatient. Bear in mind that the patient's circumstances
disease, it is important to remain calm and maintainhave caused a decreased ability to understand
your patience. The damage that Alzheimer's diseasespeech, and you should therefore speak in a
does to the brain can cause patients to reactpeaceful, quiet tone while talking slowly and using
disproportionately to situations, as is the case when asimple sentences.
patient has an outburst of rage in response to anIf you are the sole caretaker of a family member
otherwise trivial event. In such situations, it isthat has Alzheimer's disease, seeking assistance from
important that the caregiver does not take theother family members or professionals is a good way
behavior personally and maintains composure so asto help ease your burden. Remember, the patient's
not to perpetuate the patient's negative mentalwell being is the ultimate purpose and you may need
state. Keeping notes about the situations leading toa break to restore a composed mindset such that
outbursts can give you valuable insight into theiryou can provide optimal care to your loved one.