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Self Esteem Among Street Children in Chennai City

The Phenomenon of the street children is awareness that caused the act. This may
a recent one. It is stated that the Latin load the child with self condemnation,
American countries were the first to shame, guilt and remorse.
recognize it in their cities being the Harsh and demanding parents set
phenomenon of a magnitude and size which unreasonable standard, often raising them
warranted the attention of all concerned. before the child has developed the
However the problem of street children is ability to meet them. Parents may also
global one and exists in both, the subject their children to unreasonable,
developed as well as developing harsh criticism and undue and/or
countries, with a difference in its size inconsistent punishment. Such actions
and magnitude. These countries have some cause early frustration, defeatism, and a
kinds of micro levels of rehabilitation destructive sense of inadequacy and
measures. But much remains to be done in inferiority.
this field. A child being pushed beyond his capacity
Street children is a trem - shaking by the parents’ vicarious needs to
uncontrollably as a result of anxiety, achieve a sense of worth and importance
excitement or weakness which often through the child’s achievements
highlights a certain set of working and often causes a deep feeling of inadequacy
living conditions rather than personal and unworthiness in the child.
and social characteristics of the Rivalry and unsuccessful emulation of an
individual children them selves. So extremely bright or gifted brother or
often, Children in these conditions are sister, or of an exceptionally talented
victims of stereotypes such as and prominent parent often generates a
“Juvenile delinquents “ on deep sense of hopelessness and
the part of the public and authorities . inferiority.
The term “street children” A child’s unflattering physical
should refer to all children who work in appearance and/or “odds”
the street of urban areas without apparel, plus perhaps physical, mental,
reference to the time they spend there or or emotional handicaps damage his sense
the reasons for being there.” of self worth.
(National workshop on street children, 29 A child raised on the basis of “
and 30 August 1998) Reward and punishment”, rather than
The other terminologies for street being motivated through understanding and
children have been using is, allowed to make his own mistakes and to
“children without families” accept and resolve, so suffer the
“ high –risk children” consequences develops low self
“Unattached Children” –esteem.
“Children in need of care and Adverse economic, social, cultural, or
protection” ethnic position of parents and family
“Abandoned children” often invite depreciation and ridicule.
The UNICEF has called them Over possessiveness, over permissiveness,
“children in difficult and undue control exercise by one, or
circumstance”. both parents, nurtures a feeling of un
Around the part of the world the – importance and lack of esteem in
Terminology of street children used in the child.
differentways as follows, A serious sense of guilt is frequently
In Naples ,” SCUGIZZO ” induced by one’s material wealth or
derives from the work for spinning affluent background.
– top alwaysmore. High values place on money, achievement
In Peru, the “ PAJARO and thing rather than on the individual
FRUTERO” (Fruit bird) earns his and his innate worth, can preclude or
name looking out for the police in the destroy one’s self – esteem.
market place. Repeated defeats and failures can destroy
In Colombia “GAMIN” (Kid) is one’s sense of self- worth and
Borrowed from the French, but has result in one or two extremes. The child
strongly negative connotations. The same may become a drop-out from school or
world appears in RWANDA in the form society or he may become a compulsive
“SALIGOMAN” (Sale gamin, over achiever in a desperate attempt to
Nasty kid). “ prove himself”
In Zaire, street children are Procrastination and lack of self –
“MOINEAUX” (Sparrows) discipline, taking the path of least
In Cameroon, “POUSSINS” resistance, tend to demolish one’s
(Chicks) to field Workers, self respect and sense of worth.
MOUSTIQUES” (Mosquitoes) to the Lack of sense of meaning and purpose in
police . Others have proposed the term life, of clear goals and objectives,
“twilight children” to preclude sound self – esteem; Key
suggest their fragile and indefinite to High self – esteem.
status. The secret to inner peace lies in self
Officialdom, in contrast, tends to be – affirmation.
more circumspect and refers to street Need for the study
children euphemistically as Bring to the end, many studies have
“children in an irregular concentrated on street children
situation.” So, The street children situational analysis, case studies and
is a most vulnerable and high – one study on street children on the
risk group in the society. According to independent variation of sex, age,
UNICEF, they can be classified into three education relationship between father and
categories as follows. mother were conducted.
Street children on the street (children But no study was conducted in relation
with continuous family contact) with street children’s self –
Street Children of the street (Children esteem and so I have taken this problem
with occasional family contact) for my project study. Because the street
Abandoned and Neglected children ( children are the important component of
children without family) the developing country. but they are not
One of the negative consequences of in the main stream of the society. they
Urbanization in the world, particularly are neglected from the family, school
in the developing countries , is the and social setup even they are having
existence of a large proportion of the positive self – esteem about
urban poor living in slums and pavements themselves which is not recognized by the
many families do not find any shelter. existing social system. the street
The forces of modernization including children’s perception towards the
industrialization and urbanization, society is negative one.
coupled with the appalling condition of SUMMERY AND CONCLUSION
poverty have adversely affected the Many psychologists state that our self
family life. –image is affected by all type
Illiteracy, broken family, experience. We have successes , failures,
III–treatment, parent left, Death compliments, Put down personal
of parents and orphans and poverty are experiences, our expectation and others
the key factor that forced to runaway expectation of us.
from home and living on the street at In 1657, Augustine Baker, a mystical
major metropolitan cities, particularly theologian and Benedictine monk declared
in chennai. The population of street “self – esteem, Self-
children in chennai is around 1,00,000 judgment and self – will” to
Most of the street children are drop-outs be the there requisites of independence,
from school. the term had been used by scholars in
Most of the time they are living on the Latin and Ancient Greeks, Plato,
street, without having basic general Aristotle and others. Thesaurus synonyms
needs of food, clothing and shelter, are “ self- reliance”,
psychological needs of love, protection “self- consequence”,
and recognition and social needs of “poise”, “
social interaction, acceptance and confidence”, “
maturity. They are not able to get care assurance”, “Pride” or
and support from family as well as “self- sufficiency”. Antonyms
society. are “self – doubt” and
Condition of street children “self – effacement” to
The most vulnerable are the runaway boys “self- hatred” and “
and girls who live on the railway shame”.
station, bus station, market place, Therefore , the self- esteem provides an
pavements, streets and do odd jobs like essential Thread that ties together
rag picking cup collecting, coolie, various aspects of functioning. Low Level
begging, cleaning the rail boogies, small of self – esteem have been linked
hotels etc. These children live on to confusion and disorganization with in
pavements and street with sky as their a construct system. It would appear that
shelter and no one to care for with love low level of interrogation derived from
and affection. grids developed to test the construction
The condition of street children is a sad of others do not strongly imply that low
reality that this section of the level of interrogation will be found when
population are neglected, delinquent and the grids are based upon the
are uncared for. They are a new and construction of self.
rapidly increasing group of vulnerable, No society can afford to ignore the
deprived and exploited children in our street children .They are society’s
cities. future. They are to be integrated with
Chennai NGO forum for street and working the main stream of social development and
children conducted a survey on street to be provided with the opportunities to
children in 1996 with the support of grow in sound mental and physical health
UNICEF. This survey was conducted with in a appropriate social environment.
the following objective: The human resource development approach
To enumerate the number of children of has to be applied while dealing with all
children who were on the street in the team, and it is sure that given all
city of chennai. opportunities of their development, in
To find out the conditions of the street their turn they can contribute immensely
children in the city of Chennai to the all round development of the
On the basis of the survey, it was society.
estimated that the number of street This study was conducted to mainly assess
children in the city of chennai would be the level of self – esteem among
around 75, 000. If one were to include street and school children to ascertain
the children bellow 6 years and the the possible reasons for higher or lower
teenagers on the street, the population self – esteem.
would be as high as 1.5 lakhs. They were Aim
covered under survey only 6 to 18 years Studying the level of self – esteem
children. among street and school children.
Most of them earn their livelihood doing Objective
odd jobs like picking rags, or recycling To find out the level of self –
garbage, shining shoes, washing cars and esteem between school children and street
the like. Their employers often exploit children.
them sexually. In addition, most economic To find out the level of self
activities of the street children are –esteem between boys and girls
controlled by territories, each of which among street children and school
is guarded fiercely by its members, who children.
react violent if threatened . In this To develop and recommend the remedial
struggle for survival the competition is measures to overcome low elf esteem of
ruthless and only the fittest survive. To street children.
survive, They work for three hours a day Hypotheses
on an average, either in the morning or There will be significant difference
in the evening, and with their earning between school children and street
they meet their daily expense. Whenever children in their level of self –
they need advance money for their esteem.
expenses, they get from the waste paper There will be significant difference
shop owners for which they would sell between street boys and girls in their
their collection of waste only to that level of self – esteem.
particular shop. There will be significant difference
The waste paper shop is also their place between street boys and school boys in
of stay after their work. During their their level of self – esteem.
Leisure hours, they go for movies, There will be significant difference
regularly take drug, pills and injection between street girls and school girls in
and at night have sex with local CSWs at their level of self - esteem.
a cheaper rate. This involves the risk of There will be significant difference
acquiring AIDS and spreading it. They between school boys and girls in their
have homosexual habit also. The drugs level of self - esteem.
they use includes brown sugar. Sampling
Family background Using Random sampling method for the
Most of the street children are living on study 120 school and street children were
the streets away from their family due to selected among these 120 children , 60
some of the following reasons, Abuse, were boys and 60 were girls. Their age
violence, poverty, broken family, Peer ranged from 12 to 17 years. Justification
group pressure, attractions on city life, of age selection is, below 12 years the
dislike towards studies, frustration, children are not able to recognize and
orphan and others. express their self – esteem
These street children have no one to care properly , so above 12 years has been
for them except their peer with whom they selected for the study .
live on the streets. As they are away Tool used
from home and school environment , the The index of self –esteem by walter
informal social control could only play a W.Hudson was found to be the most
major role in their life in shaping the suitable tool to measure the self –
character and behaviour of these esteem levels. The total questionnaire is
children. 25
The above stated variations have been Statistical Analysis
affecting street children’s Self- The Collected date was analysed, the
esteem very deeply. Self esteem refers to Mean, standard deviation, ‘t’
the extent to which they expect to be Value was established to test the
accepted and valued by the adults and hypotheses
peers who are important to them. Even Findings
though self- esteem has been studied for The Level of Self – esteem of
more than 100 years, specialists and school children is lower than the level
educators continue to debate its precise of street children, that means street
nature and development. But they children were having high level of self
generally agree that parents and other – esteem.
adults who are important to children play There is no gender different in the level
a major role in laying a solid foundation of self –esteem of street children.
for a child’s development. The level of self –esteem of the
What is self – Esteem? street boys is higher than school boys.
When parents and teachers of young The Level of self – esteem of the
children talk about the need for good street girls is higher than school girls.
self – esteem , they usually mean The Level of self – esteem of
that children should have “ Good school girls is higher than school boys.
feelings” about themselves. With Conclusion
young children, self-esteem children An analysis of data collected being done,
refers to the extent to which they expect the following conclusion were arrived at.
to be accepted and valued by the adults The Level of Self – esteem
and peers who are important to them. identified by the school children is
Children with a healthy self – lower than the level of street children,
esteem feel that the important adults in that means street children were having
their lives accept them, care about high level of self – esteem. The
them, and would go out of their way to level of self – esteem developed by
ensure that they are safe and well . the street children boys and girls is the
They feel that those adults would be same. The level of self –esteem
upset if anything happened to them and accumulated by the street boys is higher
would miss them if they were separated. than school boys. The Level of self
Children with low self – esteem, on – esteem indicated by the street
the other hand, feel that the important girls is higher than school girls.
adults and peers in their life do not Limitations
accept them, do not care about them very The sample was limited only in the age
much, and would not go out of their way group of 12 to17 yearsstreet and school
to ensure their safety and well children.
–being. It was done only in Chennai city.
During their early years, young The sample size was small.
children’s self- esteem is based The self esteem questionnaires was given
largely on their perceptions of how the to the street children and school
important adults in their lives judge children separately.
them. The extent to which children Implications of the study
believe they have the characteristics One of the first steps in encouraging
valued by the important adults and peers healthy self - esteem in children is to :
in their lives figures greatly in the establish good relationships with them.
development of Self – esteem. For Persons in good, relationship is
example, in families and communities that ultimately what the world is all about .
value athletic ability highly, Children Relationships which are mutually loving
who excel in athletics are likely to have and caring , honest and supportive create
a high level of Self – esteem, an atmosphere for healthy human growth
Whereas children who are less athletic or and great self - esteem.
who are criticized as being physically Emotionally, children are easily
inept or clumsy are likely to suffer from threatened by anyone bigger, older or
low self – esteem. more confident than they are not yet
Families, communities, and ethnic and possessing the well - developed defended
cultural groups vary in the criteria on adults usually have, children’s
which self – esteem in based. sense of self is still Fragile vulnerable
Children with self- esteem and easily knocked down. for example,
Keeping self – esteem alive is children often don’t understand the
necessary to every human being. It is the significant difference chronological age
daily food of emotional health. Mother can make in their performance. younger
Teresa said that “each of us has a children may feel stupid because their
mission to fulfill, a mission to live, older siblings appear smarter .they do
but that it must begin in our homes not realize older children have had more
…. In the place where we are, with time than they for learning skills,
the people with when we are closest, and physical growth, greater muscle control,
then spread out, “ more practice and mare experience in
Nurturing self- esteem in children, sports, school, the arts and so on.
creating opportunities for success, younger children need to understand they
facilitating a positive self – may be years behind in eyepiece but not
image are all important influences on a necessarily in intelligence.
child’s healthy development. When they get threats from others, they
Lack of self- esteem that damages a think of themselves as unlovable,
child’s self –image could incompetent, unimportant and un wanted
interfere with a child’s ability to misfits. threat brings on feelings of
learn and relate. insecurity embarrassment ; failure and
To enhance a child’s self esteem is fear abounds inside them . So threat is
to be a positive force in a loving too be avoided.
relationship and thereby make a What Adults can do to boost self - esteem
worthwhile contribution to the world. in children?
Many parents are unwittingly aiding their Acknowledge a child’s right to
children to fail and have low self- emotions.
esteem. Provides outlets for strong
First we must define what every child feelings.allow time for strong feelings
needs. Every child needs to get parental to cool off.connect yourself with their
approval.for his or her own sense or strong emotions.help relieve stress with
personhoodfor his or her sense of proven some thing physical.show that you can
abilityfor his or her sense of accept even the undesirable.encourage
individualityfor set realistic children to talk to other adults.help
achievement goalsto provide a framework children by telling them stories.what
of meaningful values parents can do ?
Typical sources of low self- esteem in Apart from this, in order to build great
children self - esteem in children, parents need
In most cases, low self- esteem in to.
children, stems from unfortunate Be an example of self - value, self -
childhood experiences. The greatest gift love and self p celebration.
we as parents can give to our children is Respect your child as a unique never - to
sound self- esteem. When we fail to give -be- repeated miracle of good.
it we unconsciously build low self- Lead your child to feel loved , Valued
esteem in our children. and respected for his / her own self.
A Parent’s own low self Make your child responsible for his/ her
–esteem is a model for the child actions and conduct.
A Child’s lack of recognition and Help your child to feel capable of
appreciation by parents and others as an accomplishing things on his/her own.
intrinsically valuable and important Show your child that each day is full of
individual, can mar his self esteem. joys and wonderful experiences.
Phrases like “A child should be Give sincere praise and appreciation for
seen and not heard, “Mother knows every good experience.
best”, etc. demonstrate that the Let your child find him self through your
child’s needs, feelings, desires guidance. Don’t make him a robot or
and opinions are not given due rubber stamp of yourself.
consideration. Invest time and energy to help your child
A child sometimes makes self-deprecating achieve greatness.
comparisons of himself with those of his Lead your child to Improve with each
own age whom he admires for their event, not compete with others who may be
strength and ability , their popularity, more beautiful smarter or wealthier .
self –confidence and achievements. these are False standards of greatness
To make matters worse, his parents, and make one all but feel like a loser
family and friends compare him the winner in the one who is doing his
unfavourite brother or sister. This best for his own sake. Be consistent in
overpowers the child with devastating your discipline and lead your child to
sense of inferiority. agree as to proper conduct. Empress
A child feels inadequate because he is praise for good behavior and don’t
not encouraged and motivated to be destroy the value of praise by
independent, to do what he can for withholding praise when improper conduct
himself – to take responsibility occurs. Teach children not to use self
for his ability as he grows in age and put- downs Teach them how to give tem
experience. The child is not taught to selves self - support self - value, and
think for himself. self - assurance.
The false concepts, values and reactions Parents can play an Important role in
of a child’s Parents, Teachers and strengthening children’s self -
peers, cause him to identify himself with esteem by treating them respect fully ,
his actions. For example, Mohan, whose taking their views and opinions
mother had a severe migraine, is a seriously, and expressing appreciation to
“ bad boy” because he slammed them above all, parents must keep in mind
the door. Whereas, in reality it was only that self - esteem is an important part
his natural exuberance and lack of of every child’s development.




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