Boomers Accept Assisted Living Communities? Not Likely

It seems that lately there's another assisted livingThey've had a sneak peek while helping their parents,
community being built on just about every empty lotand want no part of it. Co-housing lets them rewrite
in town. What does this mean to the future? For thethe future by coming full circle with their youthful
immediate future, it's great. We Boomers who haveideals. And, isn't that what all Boomers strive for -
no time, no desire, no call to welcome our elderforever young?
parents into our own homes have someplace to putBoomers are becoming as eco-friendly as Gen Y and
Mom and/or Dad as they need more and morethe Millennials. No longer a luxury, building green is
assistance. But in the back of our minds, aren't werapidly becoming necessary, and sustainable housing is
really thinking, "Gee, Mom and Dad are going to lovethe new wave.
it here. It has all the amenities they could ask for. ButBut that isn't the only reason Boomers are rejecting
there's no way in h&%# I'm ever going to livethe current assisted living model. We are much too
here!"independent to ever accept a regimen of bingo on
Now be honest. Isn't that exactly what you'reMonday, dry meatloaf every Wednesday night, and
thinking right now? Boomers absolutely do not acceptsing-alongs on Sunday afternoon. We never were a
the idea of assisted living, and from recent studies, itgroup of one mind and I doubt if we ever will be. We
would appear that some form of communal living issee ourselves as individuals, not as part of the herd.
making its way back to the forefront. Be it condo,Therefore, living in a setting of regimented routine will
townhouse, duplex, or even a single family home innever be our style.
an adults-only community, isn't this where we'reThe solution
headed?My personal opinion is that those who are attempting
Way back when (in the 50s and 60s), communesto determine "what to do with all those Boomers,"
were where all the hippies headed. This type ofneed to step back and reassess their ideas. Boomers
housing didn't die, it simply grew up to be co-housingwant options, Boomers want choices, Boomers want
- a new type of participatory community that isto make life-style decisions based not only on their
attracting Boomers as they enter their 60s.financial health, but on their mental and physical health
Cohousing units are individually owned (like condos).as well. When the time comes that we are no longer
But residents of these eco-friendly communities shareable to maintain our independent freedom, our
communal resources and facilities, all of which helpsassistance may come in many sizes, shapes and
them be energy efficient.styles. They may be co-housing, a small adult
In 2003, there were 60 such communities across thecommunity that sets aside one home to be paid for
U.S. By 2008, there were at least 100, with 300 moreby community residents and "loaned" to a caregiver
in development (Columbia News Service, 5/11/08).couple. It could be several single elder Boomers
These properties range from the Songia Co-housingchoosing to reside together under one roof - all with
Community's 11 acre site outside Seattle to thetheir own private space, but with communal areas to
two-block Eco-Village apartments in Los Angelescounteract isolation.
(source: Iconoculture, 8/12/08).There are many methods of solving that driving
What's ahead?question of, "What do we do with them?" Some
Assisted living communities, beware! The currentcurrently exist, but leave it up to a Boomer to devise
senior housing model - from home to assisted livingnew methods of solving the problem - those
to nursing home - won't cut it for many Boomers.methods being desirable and convenient for them.