Can This Happen to Your Aging Parent - Or You?

I am a senior citizen living alone in the world's largestalive but in tremendous pain.
senior community. But I am not alone or lonely,Another neighbor, a healthy 80-year woman, was
because there are 75,000 other seniors living here.pulling weeds in her fenced garden when she tripped
We are grateful for the opportunity to liveon a garden hose and broke her leg. She cried out
independently, have our own friends and participate in"help me" repeatedly but the temperature was in the
all the activities that keep us mentally and physicallyhigh 80's and neighbors in their air-conditioned homes
active. However, the universal concern of all of us isheard nothing, saw nothing. The next day, a little
"what if I fall or become ill and no one knows?"dog, out for a walk, pulled his owner to the fence
Sometimes, our senior minds tell us we can do thingsand refused to leave. The owner heard the almost
our senior bodies cannot. I recently escapedinaudible cries of the woman ... who by then had
unscathed in a home accident but I was remindedsuffered sunstroke as well.
that my neighbors were less fortunateBoth the man and the woman had children in another
This winter, a man in my neighborhood gave hisstate who tried to 'stay in touch'. But the children
next-door neighbor a key to his house and said "ifhave jobs and children of their own. Their day is filled
my newspaper is still in the driveway at 8:00 in thewith cooking meals, housecleaning, getting the kids
morning, check on me." The neighbor watched foroff to school and extra-curricular activities,
the newspaper every day. But one early rainysupervising homework, spending a little time with
morning, another 'good' neighbor threw the wettheir husbands... as well as working 8 hours a day.
newspaper closer to his door.A call to their parent once or twice a week was
Unfortunately, the man had fallen and broken his hiproutine but it wasn't enough. Imagine the guilt of
that night. He was conscious but immobile on theknowing your mother or father suffered alone for so
bathroom floor. No one knew. Only when the nextlong.
day's newspaper remained in the driveway did hisI don't want my children to feel guilty.
next-door neighbor knock on the door and find him,