Doctor, Re-Invent Yourself When You Retire

When you retire from any profession but perhapsexpect. If someone asks you at a social event what
especially from the medical profession, you will goyou do, begin to notice your answer and how it
through a process of re-inventing yourself.gradually changes as you change and become more
If you've been a doctor for many years, yourused to being retired. You may start by saying, 'I 'm
identity was almost certainly, at least in the eyes ofa doctor' or 'I used to be a doctor 'or 'I'm a retired
others, very much defined by your professional role.doctor.' Eventually you may find you've progress to
So when you retire you have the life transition itselfthe simple phrase 'I'm retired,' only giving out more
but also your own and others' reaction to the loss ofabout your past if asked, 'retired from what?'
a major part of your identity.If you've always fancied doing or being someone
When you leave Medicine, you are very likely to godifferent then now is your chance to do so. Decide
through a grief reaction to this change of youron your first step, your very first step and take the
identity. For some doctors it is not as easy as takingaction you need to re-invent yourself. This could be,
off a coat. It takes several years to let go of afor example, changing the way you dress, or your
medical identity. As a result, you may feel angry, sad,hairstyle or learning something completely new. It
and guilty, before eventual acceptance.may be going by bus instead of car or finding a
After having been identified as a doctor for manydifferent route to the shops. It may be something
years, retirement is a time to move on from that ordeeper, such as changing some of your fundamental
at least to make a change in what a medical identitybeliefs about who you are, or what you are capable
means to you when you are no longer involved inof achieving. You may come to realise the reason
day to day decisions about patients.you didn't do what you really wanted to do, years
Retirement could be regarded as a wonderfulago was your own self belief and your own
opportunity to re-invent yourself and do thingsconfidence or lack of it.
differently. Sometimes this can be easier than you