| When aging parents come to the point when | | | | law. Even if a nurse is employed by the assisted living |
| assisted living seems like the best choice, it is usually | | | | facility, the nurse cannot give hands-on care in the |
| their baby boomer children who see it first. Perhaps | | | | form of dressing a wound, administering |
| the adult children live in another state. Perhaps they | | | | around-the-clock insulin, administering oxygen, or |
| are unable to visit Mom or Dad often enough to feel | | | | other tasks that are defined by the federal and state |
| comfortable leaving them alone. The death of a | | | | governments as "skilled nursing care." Skilled nursing |
| spouse or a gradual loss of independence in self | | | | care may only be administered within a facility that is |
| care-any of these reasons may lead to the adult | | | | licensed to do so. Legally, this kind of facility is |
| child's decision to move the parent. As an assisted | | | | licensed as a skilled nursing facility, although it may |
| living facility representative is likely to tell you, it is | | | | have a different business name that it markets itself |
| often the adult children who first come to look the | | | | as, such as an "extended care" or "long-term care" |
| place over, later bringing their parents to see the | | | | facility. Medicare and Medicaid also designate these |
| place for themselves. These adult children are the | | | | homes as skilled nursing facilities. Because skilled |
| hidden consumers of services. Assisted vs Nursing | | | | nursing facilities bill Medicare and/or Medicaid for skilled |
| Home As the hidden consumers, what do the adult | | | | nursing care, they must comply with many complex |
| children of aging parents need to understand about | | | | legal regulations and requirements. Assisted living |
| these facilities? Very simply: what the facility can't do. | | | | facilities are regulated by the state Department of |
| Invariably, the sales pitch tells you what the facility | | | | Social Services, not the Department of Health, which |
| can do, which is fine, and to be expected. But as a | | | | regulates nursing homes. Assisted living facilities do |
| consumer, you must understand the difference | | | | not have the same safety or administrative |
| between assisted and nursing care. First, an assisted | | | | requirements as a skilled nursing facility, and they are |
| living facility is not a nursing home with fancy | | | | prohibited from giving care they are not licensed to |
| furniture. Assisted living is not licensed to give nursing | | | | give. Limitations to Specialized Care Waivers There |
| care. Typically, assisted living facilities are places | | | | are exceptions to some of the federal and state |
| where elders live in a supervised community, with | | | | government's licensing requirements. For example, a |
| some personal care services available. Meals, social | | | | licensed assisted living facility may take care of |
| activity, and help with the activities of daily living such | | | | residents with dementia, including Alzheimer's disease, |
| as bathing and dressing are all usually offered at such | | | | if it has a waiver to accept this kind of resident. The |
| facilities. The focus is on providing a healthy social | | | | facility must also have certain protections in place to |
| environment and preventing social isolation. It is a | | | | prevent injury to its demented residents. However, it |
| worthy focus, as isolation is dangerous, and | | | | is still prohibited from restraining a demented resident |
| widespread among elders whose independence is | | | | who has a tendency to wander. There are many |
| declining. If your parent is in fragile health and seems | | | | other limitations to what an assisted living facility can |
| to be steadily declining physically or mentally, be | | | | do, even with waivers. Taking care of residents with |
| cautious about choosing an assisted living facility over | | | | dementia can be unpredictable, and skilled nursing can |
| a nursing home (also known as a skilled nursing | | | | become necessary as the disease progresses. When |
| facility). No one chooses a nursing home first. Nursing | | | | an aging parent has to move out of the family home, |
| homes are more like hospitals, as they must be to | | | | or out of a long-term residence of any kind, the |
| deliver skilled care to frail seniors. But if your aging | | | | move can be difficult, even traumatic. If you are |
| parent needs nursing care, and must be watched day | | | | considering assisted living as an option for your loved |
| and night, or you believe that he or she is likely to | | | | one, be sure your focus is on the long run. Carefully |
| need such supervision in the near future, it is the only | | | | consider what he or she will need a year down the |
| choice. Assisted living facilities are not licensed by | | | | road. Moving an elder twice within a short period can |
| Medicare or Medicaid to give skilled care. Some have | | | | be extremely hard on both of you, so make your |
| a separate skilled nursing facility on-site or nearby, | | | | decisions based on the overall picture, not just on |
| but it will have its own license to deliver skilled nursing | | | | what the assisted living facility can do for him or her |
| care. That license does not apply to the assisted | | | | right now. As hidden consumers, adult children must |
| living component, even the two facilities are located | | | | be fully aware of the limits of assisted care. Assisted |
| on the same campus or are operated by the same | | | | care facilities can be wonderful and supportive |
| parent company. Doctors & Nurses Not Required | | | | environments for residents who don't need skilled |
| Many assisted living facilities do not have any licensed | | | | care. If you are considering assisted living for your |
| nurse on staff, and may have no nurse connected to | | | | aging parent, be sure this kind of place is a match for |
| them at all. Because they are considered non-medical | | | | your parent's needs. |
| facilities, having a licensed nurse is not required by | | | | |