Should They Stay Or Should They Go?

As the child of an aging parent, safety should alwaysTango your way to improved brain power and better
be your number one priority when contemplatingbalance!
your parents' care. Many older adults become victimsAnother advantage of such facilities is their varied
of accidents that occur right in their own homes. Asexercise programs. You have to inquire as to what
we age, it can become increasingly difficult to walkeach facility offers, but most have extensive
up and down stairs. Lugging heavy grocery bags canprograms ranging from strength training to tango
be exhausting. Cooking nutritious and balanced mealslessons!
may prove challenging. Moreover, the long, coldWe have often been told that exercise is essential to
winters and hot, humid summers can make gettingan active and healthy old age. Patricia Mckinley,
out of the house quite problematic. Your parent mayresearcher, at McGill University, knew that motivating
be left feeling isolated and alone.older adults to exercise was going to require much
When should my parent move to an assisted livingmore than describing the benefits of working out. So
facility?she set out to find a physical activity that seniors
Assisted living facilities can be the perfect solution forwould find FUN. She settled on the Tango.
people who have difficulty performing daily tasksMckinley's findings indicate that tango dancing
such as bathing, dressing, and grooming, but who doimproves brainpower and balance amongst older
not need around the clock care. Such residences canadults. Those assigned to take tango lessons not only
also prove to be the best alternative for people wholearned the art of Argentine Tango dancing, but
live alone and whose quality of life is hamperedimproved their balance, posture and coordination in
because they are isolated and they have limited socialcomparison to a control group of walkers.
interaction.After only 10 weeks all participants in the study had
Although services do vary from one facility to theimproved their scores on memory tests, but only the
next, most offer health and exercise programs,tango dancers had better scores on a multitasking
housekeeping and laundry service, transportation,test.
dining options, and social activities.This is fantastic news for older adults as they can
Such residences have a great number of physical,tango their way too good health.
social and emotional benefits. Many people thrive inFind a residence that complements your life style
such an environment, even if they did not fare wellToday, there are many residential options to choose
living on their own. The knowledge that medicalfrom. Your job is to find an assisted living facility that
attention is available on site 24 hours a day, sevenbest suits your parents' life style and needs. Your
days a week, affords both parent and child peace ofchoice will depend on many factors such as location,
mind. Assisted Living also it enables seniors to regainlevel of care and services, reputation of the facility,
their self-confidence and reclaim their lives.decor and cost. Your parents' may desire a relaxed
In fact, many older adults lead a much higher qualityand cozy atmosphere, or they may prefer to live in
of life and are happier once they move to anthe lap of luxury, or anything in between!
assisted living residence. They start eating better,Many senior residences provide a host of living
exercising more and enjoying the company of newoptions depending upon the level of care that is
friends. The added bonus of having staff aroundneeded.Some homes offer independent living,
greatly improves their overall wellbeing as theyassisted living and even programs designed for
ensure that residents take their medication and eatpatients with Alzheimer's disease and other forms of
well. Moreover, they are in an environment thatdementia. And still others offer a "continuum of care"
increases their opportunities for social interaction.which caters to all of the housing needs of retirees
Participating in group activities can give your parentsfrom independent living to full service long term and
an important boost and keep them from sinking intohospice care.
a sedentary and lonely lifestyle.Seniors can ease their move into a senior residence
Friends become invaluable as we ageby choosing a facility that caters to the various
Developing strong, intimate social networks is one ofstages of aging. They can transition from an
the cornerstones of successful aging. Not only doindependent living facility to assisted living and then to
close ties provide our lives with meaning and purpose,a nursing home, if needed, all within the same
but they are also essential to our social, emotionalorganization.
and physical wellbeing, especially as we age. FindingsAs we age our sense of belonging and connection
from a recent study conducted by Simon Fraser'sbecomes vital to our overall wellbeing. So when
gerontology research center revealed that thelooking for that perfect community for mom or dad,
happiest seniors are those that feel a sense ofmake sure that it provides a blend of social, physical
belonging to community. According to Dr. Veronicaand intellectual pursuits that nurture both body and
Doyle, director of the study, "it isn't how often yousoul.
see your kids -it's how many places in the world youAs always if you have any comments, suggestions
are a somebody". Assisted living facilities provide anor questions please do not hesitate to contact me at
arena for socialization and an opportunity to developI look forward to speaking to you real soon.
intimate bonds.