Stuck in a Sandwich - Researching Good Independent Living Retirement Communities

You've heard of the "Sandwich Generation", right?I think my both my parents and grandparents would
Wikipedia defines the Sandwich Generation as thelike Alhambra, Ca. Alhambra is charming and has a
generation of people who care for their aging parentsresidential feel coupled with growing business. It's
while supporting their own children.located in the western San Gabriel Valley
Well, I'm kind of on the bottom of a two layerapproximately eight miles from the Downtown Los
sandwich (and sometimes I think it's a bolognaAngeles and is close to Pasadena.
sandwich, but, hey, that's another story!!). What IThe city of Alhambra appears to have a good senior
mean by this is like the name describes I, too, have aprogram - the Department of Community Services
child that I am responsible for as well as havingSenior Division offers a wide variety of programs and
parents in their retirement years. But, not only that, Iactivities for adults age 60 and over, including
have grandparents who also need taken carerecreation, social services, nutrition, and
of....thus, adding another layer on top of my currenttransportation. There is an Alzheimer's Association
"Sandwiched location".Safe Return Program which is good in case it's ever
So, what to do? My grandparents are definitely atneeded.
the point where they need some assisted living help.I found that Alhambra has a good Continuing Care
Mom and dad are still considered "Active Adults" andRetirement Community that offers four levels of
living independently, but at some point in the nearcare: Independent Living (for my parents!), Assisted
future will probably also need some assisted living in aLiving (for my grandparents!), Skilled Nursing Services
continuing care community. So... the research begins.and Dementia/Alzheimer's Specialty Care. And, it is
I am looking at things close to home in Southernlicensed by the California Department of Social
California first... what do different cities have toServices.
offer? What types of activities will my grandparentsThis is definitely a Continuing Care Retirement
and parents be interested in? There are so manyCommunity for me to consider as it provides
questions.retirement living scenarios that fit both my parents
Feel free to join me on my journey!and grandparents needs. What a find!
First stop: Alhambra CA