The Life in Your Years

Abraham Lincoln's famous words have lived on forparents. Once reliable and caring in-home care is
ages after they were spoken. It's quite possible thatarranged, both seniors and their families breathe
he had no idea the impact those words would makeeasier and can get back to the task of living life to
on societies born well after his death. But how truethe fullest.
those words are; And in the end, it's not the years inAs important as it is to enjoy continued
your life that count. It's the life in your years.independence, seniors must not forget to get out
Retirement doesn't signal the end of life, only the endand enjoy the freedom they have in this stage of
of an era. For those who have embraced the manylife. The kids are grown and well into their child
changes that have surely visited them throughout arearing years. You have contributed to the work
long and healthy existence, life after retirement canforce for decades and enjoyed the sweet success
be active and full of satisfying activities. Growing intoof your career. Now is the time to think of
your seventies and eighties is oftentimes a life eventsomething you may immensely enjoy doing. Perhaps
that you and your family tiptoe towards, worriedyou've always wanted to learn a new language. It's
about your health and safety. If you are the retiree,not too late to begin learning! In fact, studies have
the worry about health and safety is most likelyshown that seniors who spend time on educational
more on the part of your children than on your part.activities have better cognitive function and retain
Adult children worry that their parents are well takentheir memories longer than seniors who do not. In
care of, and yet don't want to take away theaddition to the health benefits, attending educational
valuable independence that they have enjoyed for soprograms give seniors the opportunity to interact
many years. It is a situation that, working closelywith others of their age group and younger people
together, can be handled with grace and dignity.as well. Engaging in a group activity also helps alleviate
Maintaining independence is vitally important to thethe isolation and depression that inactive seniors
emotional well-being of our senior community. Thoseoften develop.
who care for and are planning the living arrangementsHere are a few pulsating activities to keep you
of seniors will do well to keep this in mind whenyoung at heart: Eight is Enough ... Bridge Team
working with them. These are people who have livedGames, Pie Socials, Play Poker, Greeting Card
through years of ups and downs; decades of raisingrecycling, Group Trail Walks, Group Bike Rides,
children and holding down successful careers. Thekaraoke, Digital Photography¦
latter years of a person's life are still full of potentialIf language is not your thing, there are still a wide
and vitality; that is a fact.variety of options open to you. Exercise classes,
Staying in your own home as you grow older ischess clubs, even square dancing or ballroom dancing
something that you may have strong feelings about.are all thriving classes in our local community center.
Your home is as much a part of your life as yourThe bottom line is that as you have embraced every
family. It is where so many memories live that leavingother life change that has come your way, embracing
it is almost always a last resort. Obtaining qualitythe changes that come along with retirement and
in-home care when it becomes necessary cansenior living is what will keep you the most healthy
alleviate fears that may go along with independentand happy.
living. Knowing that you have a caretaker that comesAttitude determines so much in life. This is something
and goes as needed can give you and your family aall who have lived long have discovered. When you
peace of mind, and allow you to live more freelyand your family can look at this time in life as just
doing the things that make you happy.another adventure in a long journey, then you can
There are so many activities that seniors can engagefind the things that make your heart sing as loudly as
in that will not only give them something to do, butit did when you were just beginning. Making sure that
will also continue to enhance their lives. After all,everything at home is taken care of by a home
learning and experiencing new things is good forhealth agency you are comfortable with leaves the
everyone, no matter what their age. Making this adoors wide open for you to branch out and continue
fulfilling part of a healthy life is easily done when aleaving your mark on the world. Life does not stop at
family has taken the time to engage in discussionsa certain age, it goes on as long as you continue
about the importance of independence to agingwalking down that road.